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Overcomers in Christ: Moving in the Right Direction

I first went to Overcomers in Christ a few years ago because I had nowhere else to go.  I had hit rock bottom.   My wife had left me.   I had no real friends or meaningful relationships with anyone, including God.  I had nowhere else to turn.

As a person I am far from perfect.  I have had a life-long struggle with pornography and a negative self image, among other things.  Because of this I had been ineffective in working for God’s kingdom here on earth because I doubted I was capable or worthy of doing anything.  I doubted that I was even a Christian.  I doubted that God could love someone like me.

One thing I have noticed about the people of Overcomers is that they have an incredible awareness of God’s love and grace.  And it shows: they exhibit God’s love in a way I had never before known or experienced.  They know they are far from perfect, they freely admit it, and they know that only God’s grace can save them.  There is nothing they can do to save themselves.  In Overcomers you learn that God wants us to change for the better, and that He (and only He) can help us do that.  You learn that willpower means your will and His power.  Overcomers is a place where God loves you through other people.

Overcomers is a place for anyone who wants to change but doesn’t know how to.  You learn that no matter what you habits are, no matter what behaviours you are engaged in, God loves you.   He wants to change you to become more like His Son.  He wants to help you change and He will if you let Him.  Overcomers is a place where God helps you to change.

This may sound scary to you. It did to me at first.  I had to step out of my comfort zone.  I had to get real; first with myself, and then with other people.  I had to admit my hurts, habits and hang-ups.  I had to face them.  I had to forgive them.  And I had to forget them. It hasn’t been easy: nothing worth doing in life ever is.  But the people in Overcomers support me and help me to do this.  They love and accept me as I am.  They support me and encourage me and help me to grow and change to be more like Jesus Christ.  I’m still far short of being the man God wants me to be but at least now, for the first time, I am moving in the right direction and making steady progress.  Overcomers is a place where you learn to rest in God’s forgiveness, grace and love.  You learn that He covers all things with His goodness, and that He makes a way when you’ve messed up the way.

No matter where you are at or how many times you may have tried and failed in the past to change, I encourage you to give Overcomers a try.  Many of us fall or stray at some point in our walk.  That doesn’t make you a failure.  You’re only a failure if you quit trying.  So, give Overcomers a try.   I did, and my life will never be the same.  Thank God.

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Overcomers in Christ: God spoke to her through her pain

(story told on this lady’s behalf)

Sometimes in life we are overcome with dread.

She was going along in life her happy self, had a career, got married, had a kid (adorable little one 9 yrs). Then something dreadful happened to her right on mother’s day.

C.S. Lewis said this, “Pain insists upon being attended to. God whispers to us in our pleasures, speaks in our consciences, but shouts in our pains. It is his megaphone to rouse a deaf world.”

That mother’s day, through the pain in her life, and the pain caused by her alcoholism, God spoke to her very loudly, like through that megaphone. And at the same time, God spoke to her that through His suffering, His blood, He gave up his only son, was tortured on the cross He died to save us from our sinful selves!

She also heard Him say, “Be still and know that I am God!”

She has now been sober for over a year, and Overcomers in Christ has been a part of her recovery. And for that she expresses her thankfulness.

Yours, o lord is the greatness, the power and the glory and the victory and majesty. For all that is in the heavens and the earth is yours, yours is the kingdom, o Lord and you are exalted as head over all. – 1 chronicles 29:11

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Overcomers in Christ: Found Her Answers.

For many years I have struggled with addictive behaviour, failed to maintain relationships, and I felt like God didn’t love me. I’ve been a Christian for 20 some years, but my life reflected no proof that I knew Jesus, and there was no evidence of a solid relationship with Him.

I have had many addictions which include drugs, sexual behaviour, cutting, and pornography. On many occasions I tried to quit, but always ended up going back to my addiction. I felt like a failure. Nothing I did worked. I felt powerless, out of control.

I joined Church of the Rock just over 2 years ago. I was introduced to a group “Overcomers in Christ”, by a very good friend. Though hesitant and nervous at first, I bit the bullet and dove in head first. To my amazement, I found there were other Christians that were struggling just like I was. As the weeks went by I was comfortable enough with these people to share my hurts, my habits, and my hang-ups. It is great to be in a safe place where you can share your thoughts and feelings, and relate to others as well. I have learned a lot about where my addictions have come from, and also I have a better understanding of how God can help me through my struggles. In this group, I have been able to build and maintain friendships with others, as well as have a relationship with Jesus Christ.

I definitely recommend Overcomers to anyone who is struggling with an addiction and looking for some answers.

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Overcomers in Christ: Freed from His Porn Addiction

When I went to my very first Overcomers in Christ meeting, I snuck into the room hoping that no one would see me. I was already a volunteer leader’s assistant, and didn’t want anyone to know I was going to Overcomers. I planned that if anyone asked me why I was there on a Wednesday, I would tell them I was going to a “class”.

I was 29 and had become a Christian 5 years earlier. Jesus was very real to me, and He helped me get free from many other hurts, habits, and hang-ups with the support of the church, but there was one I didn’t allow Jesus to heal.

My 16-year pornography addiction was destroying my relationships, costing me time and money, was affecting my ministry, and was leaving me guilt-ridden and ashamed. I was living a double life.

When that first meeting started, I was surprised by the genuine love and care that the people had for each other and me. When they started going around the tables and introducing themselves and why they were there, I was blown away by the honesty of the people sharing, and the acceptance of the group. But when it was my time to share, I gave my name and very sheepishly said, “I’m just he-ere to see if thi-is is the ri-right place for m-me.” God totally spoke to me through this meeting, and at the next meeting I shared that I was there because of my porn addiction and immediately I began to start getting free.

It’s about four years later, and I have spent most of that time being “sober”.  I have had relapses, but they’ve only been very brief, never as severe as in the past, and the group has always been there for me to help get back on my feet. I am continuing to learn how to walk in a daily dependence on God instead of on my own strength. My relationships are not perfect, but they are much deeper, I am much more productive, my ministry is being blessed, but most importantly, I now understand that I am free.

The humility, authenticity, and sacrifice of many people from Overcomer’s in Christ allowed me to let Jesus heal me in a way I never imagined possible.

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